Where do I begin...

What does it mean to be "loving"

Sat, 27 Apr 2013 18:56:54 -0400

Being Loving does NOT mean being a push over. It does not mean being codependent and putting everyone else first and leaving yourself empty.

That’s not Loving at all.

There are many different states of Love. There is kind Love. There is angry Love. There is fearful Love (can you imagine that!?). There is patient Love.

There is passionate Love. There is restrained Love.

Being Loving doesn’t mean you are always happy.

And let’s get something straight; fear is not the opposite of Love. Love has no opposites. In fact, Love is the SPACE that allows free will to happen, which includes fear to arise.

If I were to think of a human attribute that would come close to being the opposite of Love, it wouldn’t be fear - it would be ignorance. As human beings, fear is natural to have, especially when we are growing and trusting our Hearts. We feel fear when we face uncertainty - that doesn’t mean we are unloving - it just means we are growing.

Ignorance, on the other hand, is responsible for all kinds of painful acts. All terrorism, evil and darkness that human beings express are a result of ignorance.

Now, ignorance can produce fear – because when we believe we are separate from our fellow brothers and sisters – that is an ignorant belief. But fear can be healthy.

Being angry can be healthy. The entire range of human emotions has a point or a purpose. To deny our human emotions is to deny the beauty that we are as made by our Creator.

You are not unspiritual if you are afraid. Chances are, you’re growing and doing something new.

Now – sometimes we are afraid because we are in mortal danger. That is an appropriate time to be afraid. I am on the spiritual path, but if my life was in danger you can believe I would be scared.

Every emotion has a purpose. Every state has a reason. The idea is to not let a certain emotion or state become your identity or to let it rule you.

When you are ruled by fear, when you are ruled by anger, when you are ruled by passion – alone – that can be harmful.

Let us honor our emotions and find the reason why they are there. The beliefs about life and ourselves that we hold must be challenged if we are to grow.

This doesn’t mean that something is wrong with you. It doesn’t mean you are unspiritual - it means you are human and that you care.

Love your emotions, all of them, and don’t be afraid to bring some Loving fire or anger to the scene if it’s needed.

How can you Lovingly use all of your emotions today? What if they all had a good reason for being there? How would you view yourself?

It is NEVER OK

Sun, 10 Mar 2013 14:23:19 -0400

Don’t try to make sense out of nonsense. Rationalizing your cheating spouse’s behavior or sympathizing with him/her is pointless. It is never OK to go outside of your relationship to solve problems within a relationship. It’s not your fault.

"Once you say ‘I want to find Truth’, all your life will be deeply affected by it. All..."

Sun, 10 Mar 2013 13:01:51 -0400

““Once you say ‘I want to find Truth’, all your life will be deeply affected by it. All your mental and physical habits, feelings and emotions, desires and fears, plans and decisions will undergo a most radical transformation.””

To be happy

Sun, 10 Mar 2013 07:00:54 -0400

To be happy….I’m supremely happy in some aspects of my life, but never in intimate relationships…thus far….Relationships are totally relationshits to me because I put forth 100% and seem to get slighted every time, or, OR I end up ruining something. Stupid boy.
Sometimes, I never feel being, just being and want to be fully aware that I should just cherish and stop questioning it.

"Your current circumstances don’t determine where you go; they merely determine where you start."

Wed, 06 Mar 2013 10:44:35 -0500

“Your current circumstances don’t determine where you go; they merely determine where you start.”

- Nido Quebin (via onlinecounsellingcollege)
Hmph..

"I have trust issues. I always wonder what the real motives are with anyone, so, Ive got a small..."

Sun, 24 Feb 2013 03:15:49 -0500

“I have trust issues. I always wonder what the real motives are with anyone, so, Ive got a small circle of friends, and its a lot of the same friends Ive known forever. Right now, that works for me. I came out of some difficult things these past couple of years. I kind of feel like Im just now finding my footing. So I want to make sure thats secure before I go out and do anything else. I need to keep working on myself for a while.”

"“If you believe in what you are doing, then let nothing hold you up in your work. Much of the..."

Sun, 17 Feb 2013 13:47:30 -0500

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“If you believe in what you are doing, then let nothing hold you up in your work. Much of the best work of the world has been done against seeming impossibilities. The thing is to get the work done.”

- Dale Carnegie

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"“Deliver me from all evildoers that talk nothing but sickness and failure. Grant me the..."

Wed, 06 Feb 2013 01:10:46 -0500

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“Deliver me from all evildoers that talk nothing but sickness and failure. Grant me the companionship of men who think success and men who work for it. Loan me associates who cheerfully face the problems of a day and try hard to overcome them. Relieve me of all cynics and critics. Give me good health and the strength to be of real service to the world, and I’ll get all that’s good for me, and will give what’s left to those who want it.”

- William Feather, was an American publisher and author.

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Self love

Sat, 02 Feb 2013 14:17:50 -0500

TODAY’SAFFIRMATIONS

I Love me as I am.

I Love the dark side of me.

I Love the unlovable parts of me.

Damn straight!

Fri, 04 Jan 2013 09:28:21 -0500

Damn straight!

Over thinking ruins you

Sun, 23 Dec 2012 00:32:03 -0500

Over thinking ruins you

Anatodaephobia

Tue, 18 Dec 2012 14:19:24 -0500

Ahhh come on, nobody has this phobia…Anatodaephobia= the fear that somewhere, somehow, a duck is watching you.

Just…..JUST a pinch my ass!!

Mon, 17 Dec 2012 14:19:47 -0500

Just…..JUST a pinch my ass!!

Dammit Brad Bojilova..why…why…WHY!!!

Thu, 13 Dec 2012 01:17:43 -0500

Dammit Brad Bojilova..why…why…WHY!!!

Be strong enough

Tue, 11 Dec 2012 21:45:26 -0500

Be strong enough

Trying…

Tue, 11 Dec 2012 17:53:23 -0500

Trying…

Oh to be able to just dress up like this and be...

Sat, 01 Dec 2012 13:59:00 -0500

Oh to be able to just dress up like this and be silly.Who’s down?

"Everyone has their weak spot. The one thing that, despite your best efforts, will always bring you..."

Sat, 01 Dec 2012 13:57:29 -0500

“Everyone has their weak spot. The one thing that, despite your best efforts, will always bring you to your knees, regardless of how strong you are otherwise.”

- Sarah Dessen (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

COUNSELLING BLOG: Tips to Stop Procrastinating

Sat, 01 Dec 2012 13:57:09 -0500

COUNSELLING BLOG: Tips to Stop Procrastinating:

onlinecounsellingcollege:

1. If you’re procrastinating because you’re feeling stuck (eg, if you don’t really understand a school assignment, or you don’t know what’s expected, or you don’t know where to start) then pluck up the courage to ask for some help. When you know what you’re doing, it’s easier to work.

2. …

Hahaha I’m sorry you can’t sleep Brad…bahaha

Tue, 20 Nov 2012 05:17:57 -0500

Hahaha I’m sorry you can’t sleep Brad…bahaha